Hmmm....point to be noted....

Have you ever wondered how people end up knowing what they really want to do and be in life? It is a little scary thinking about the fact that a day will come where we will end up spending our life doing one job everyday. Some of us end up being what we had planned to be since nursery school, and some of us are still in the process of figuring out what it is that we want to do in our life, be it our career or life in general, there seems to be an air of confusion (if I may call it that)....

Somewhat, in this day and age, careers are creating a divide or maybe it is right to say that professions are creating a divide. More than being about doing what you love, professions are more about showing off (sounding a bit stereotypical here) but what is annoying is not the fact that people are proud about their profession, that is absolutely natural, what is annoying and sad is that we are identifying who to talk to and who not to talk to through this. Heard this phrase before "Go talk to her/him, he knows a lot of people, he will be very 'helpful' (useful). " Well, there is no harm in that, it is absolutely fine to do that but can you forward time and see where that attitude is taking us? Here you may need some time to think and naturally most of you may REALIZE this to be partially true (point to be noted)...

In the olden days, people loved doing their jobs and I can say that because I have met tailors, beauticians, chefs, artists, doctors, engineers, mechanics from an older generation who are so happy with what they do and they do not charge a bomb for their services, in fact, most of them are the most affordable professionals I have come across. They take pride in what they do but not to the point at which the pride gets into their head and bloats their ego. So the point I am trying to make here is that we should dump our judgments.
Try this: choose any day that you like and call it the NO OPINION MAKING or NO JUDGING day...be true to it and write down how you feel at the end of the day, I bet you, most of you will feel very good because it is a fact that refraining oneself from making judgments in very courageous and requires a lot of will power...

Again, the simple point I am making here is that get to know people not because it is 'cool' to be around them or because they are highly influential or famous but because you want to actually understand why they are who they are today. We are always complaining about how other people are judging us, take a moment and think back, don't you also do the same thing? So at the end of the day, before being an artist, doctor, teacher, nurse or whatever be it, we are first human beings, let that always come first...ditch the rest and then see how well you can connect not only with others but with yourself...and always smile because you can and most of all because it is FREEEEEEE...... ummm, I am an artist, just for your information ;).... STOP JUDGING NOW.. haha!