It only hurts because it matters.....

How often do we get offended and hurt because of people we care about? This question is in reality quite rhetorical. Over the past few weeks, my mind has done a lot of thinking and evaluation of lots of different things. I thought about the time when I was in primary school, the only thing I had to worry about was whether I have done my homework, packed my bag right and whether mum has packed lunch for me. Then came high school, I started changing, friends were becoming a big part of my life. Small things started to matter more, I wanted a phone, I wanted the best clothes and we all had an indirect competition as to who looks the best.... wow, I really must have grown up!!
Then came the boys and attraction here and there, very normal! haha! The world seemed like a whole new place, and suddenly, the world seemed to revolve around me (little did I know!). Well, just as I thought that phase was over, love was in the air. The world seemed to look like the most beautiful place (not that it isn't).  Craziness took over and life changed. It was the best feeling.

Today, looking back has made me realise how shallow I was at that time. But as they say, with time we realise what we don't want. Now, it's really time to just allow myself to think and of the little Ithat I have thought, I know that being in love does not need to end, so I haven't let it end. Things and people who hurt us are only those who matter to us. So there is nothing unusual in that. But if one has the courage to love someone, one should also have the courage to let go of that someone and move on with life. And if we never give up on life, then why should we give up on love?

On that note, I would love to share a beautiful Snap I took in the MARA, it reminds me of all the beautiful moments that will never return....